Conversation starters that work
Starting a conversation with someone from another country can feel a bit daunting. What if you say the wrong thing? What if they don't reply? But the truth is, most people on Countryness are here for the same reason: they're curious, open-minded and looking to connect. The trick is just finding the right way to begin. Here are some conversation starters that work well.
Ask About Where They Live
People love sharing what makes their country or hometown unique.
- "What's something everyone should experience if they visit your country?"
- "What do you love most about where you live?"
- "Is there a food or dish that's really popular where you are?"
These questions are friendly, easy to answer and often lead to interesting stories. They invite people to share something personal without feeling put on the spot - a great way to open the door to deeper conversation.
Show An Interest In Travel
If you're into travel (or even just curious), show your interest.
- "Where would you go if you could go anywhere?"
- "What's the most beautiful place you've visited?"
- "Which country is next on your list of planned trips?"
You'll likely find shared dreams or discover amazing places you've never heard of, helping to turn a simple chat into something meaningful and memorable.
Find Things In Common
If you already know you both like music, books or languages - that's a goldmine.
- "What kind of music do you like?"
- "Have you read any books recently that you'd recommend?"
- "We're learning the same language - want to help each other?"
Even without things in common, discovering the differences is part of the fun.
What Not To Ask Right Away
- Avoid politics or sensitive topics unless the other person brings it up.
- Don't ask overly personal or romantic questions right away.
- Try not to make it all about you - a good conversation is a two-way street.